1) Take a bath together and use:
* soft music
* wash cloth
Set the space up with sensuality not sexuality in mind.
2) Take turns washing and caressing each others bodies. Open up to sensation,
try to not talk that much just feel the sensation of the warm water and your
partner's hands on your body. Ask for what you want, more or less pressure,
more or less soap or water...
After you are done take turns drying each other off.
4) Lie down on the bed and spoon and breath together OR, do some sensual
5) If you decide to do sensual massage be luxurious and slow and really take
your time. When you are both ready, incorporate genital massage. This is an
opportunity to get to know your lover'
s body so go slow. Watch how the arousal
tissue swells and changes. It will change in a variety of ways, see if you can
notice how. You can even reflect this to your lover. Make sure that you are using
lots of loving communication throughout.
6) At this point you can decide to either end your erotic explorations or go
further. There is no right or wrong way to continue this activity as long as you
are both in agreement.
7) Before bed, share 2-3 Gratitudes that you have for your partner, something
that they have done or said to you that day that you feel Grateful for.